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just remembering how my dad kinda fuckin said i look like shit saying i needed to get new clothes even if the new office environment was casual and like implying i dont have nice stuff. what i need right now is a dysphoric panic attack about having to clothes shop again wooo

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oh and my mum saying id need to wear a suit... and then when reminding my mum im a woman she tried to save it saying girls can wear them too... yeah but id be in pain. anyway i do kinda want new clothes... imagine if i had money for that

@roxie (I don’t expect your dad has a clear idea what devs wear in the office anyway)

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@ghost_bird yeah.. its just annoying. Esp when i was wearing a top i really like hit me :/ its still just jeans and top but like its not dyysphoric or too new my autistic brain hates it

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@roxie Aw, sympathy. I wear jeans and a top most of the time, fwiw, and no one complained back when we were in the office every day

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@roxie Shitty thing to say even without the misgendering - but you can at least think about some new clothes you actually like once they start paying you

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@ghost_bird yeah like idk what im expected to do with like a combined total of like Β£120 in my bank account to last me the whole month until i get under half a paycheck with the new job. Like its not really like i have much to get new clothes

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@roxie You’ll be okay - if there was a strict dress code they would have told you in the interview. This is just your parents being out-of-touch and low key shitty

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